A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
~ one old love she can imagine going back to... and one who reminds her how far she has come...
~ enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...
~ something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
~ a youth she's content to leave behind...
~ a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age...
~ a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
~ one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
~ a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
~ eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored..
~ a feeling of control over her own destiny...
~ something new in her home that she can be proud of…
~ someone who appreciates her for her inner beauty and loves to tell her so…
~ someone to hug… and someone who will initiate hugs with her…
~ the ability to say, “I am” without worrying about repercussions…
~ to be just ‘irresponsible’ enough to be able to let her hair down and play with the kiddies…
~ to be ‘responsible’ and consistent enough to be a treasure for any employer…
~ to be strong enough to survive on her own if need be… to be soft enough to allow others to share her life…
~ to be brave enough to venture out alone in the world… and not worry about what others may think…
~ the ability to forgive others… and herself…
~ the ability to be courageous enough to face her worst fears with love and compassion…
courtesy of several friends