Angel's Craft
The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully
dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair fashionably coifed and
makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing
home today.
Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move
necessary. After many hours of waiting
patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her
room was ready.
As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a
visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
hung on her window.
"I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an
eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room ... just wait."
"That doesn't have anything to do with it," she
replied.
"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.
Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged,
it's how I arrange my mind. I already
decided to love it...
"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed
recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work,
or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on
the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away for just this time in
my life.
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Old age is like a bank account ... you withdraw from what you've
put in ... so, my advice to you would
be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories. Thank you for your part in filling my Memory
bank. I am still depositing."
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Remember the five simple rules
to be happy:
1. Free your heart from
hatred.
2. Free your mind from
worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
A COURSE IN MIRACLES [excerpt]
THINGS AREN’T ALWAYS WHAT THEY SEEM
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